Healthy Boundaries ✨

From Goodbyes to Glowing Growth...

Inner Intuition/calling, gut feeling… I could trust my body on this. I felt this powerful sensation in my head, my heart, & my stomach and I knew something was off 😵‍💫

For a few years, I have been avoiding the truth, by fear of losing a part of me, by guilt, by gratefulness, by respect, by admiration, but also by shame of being judged 🥺

I allowed people to put me down, make me feel not enough, convince me something was wrong with me, or make me believe I was a bad person. While I chose to give, give more, hope, wait, love, and love even more ❣️

I was receiving love through judgment or criticism - tough love. Unfortunately, love covered in makeup is not real love; it's conditional and unhealthy 💔

I just realized the powerful protection mechanism that I put in place since childhood: blend in, be “normal”, contain emotions, don’t move, don’t speak, don’t smile too much, don’t shine, don’t share too much joy, don’t love too much… 🫠

Some people were nourishing their souls to see me contained, suffering, confused, angry, sad… And to all the people who once were happy to see me this way, I say Goodbye, with unconditional Love and Grace ❤️🥰

Saying goodbye to those we love but who cannot love us back in a healthy and empowering way can be difficult. Often, these individuals struggle to love themselves, which can lead to projecting anger, fear, or jealousy onto us. Sometimes too much ego and a developed sense of self-destruction are even involved ⚡️

Offering them space and time can be the most beautiful gift we can give them ❤️‍🔥

And this is such a powerful gesture of self-love to allow ourselves to take the lead on creating distance, finding Glowing Growth in the middle of hard goodbyes🤍

Today I choose myself, expanding my vision of self-growth in every dimension, feeling unstoppable, and for the first time in my life, very excited to embody this new dimension of what a fearless Life has to offer 😎

Well-being is a choice. The choice is yours! ✨

Love, S ❤️